What do i do??
Question: im not exactly pritty. my friends say that i am but i just dont think that i am. i am overweight a little not extreamly but still it is there i want to be confrontable with myself but their is always something wrong. my friends are skinny and i see them and i am jelious its kinda bad but i wanna be just like them they get all of the guys and i am just sitting in the corner.i want a boyfriend and no one seems to like me i dont know if it is me or them but i dont no what to do i want confiedence adn i want to love myself but i dont like me. to me i am ugly and fat that is what i see and i want to change that but i dont know how. i wanna change but i cant. i dont know what to do and it kills me. can you help??
Answers: let me tell you something hun. i went for most of my life thinking like you do and it got me nowhere. you will never find happiness until you learn to love yourself. be happy with who and what you are. find what you are good at and do it, forget about not being good enough for anyone else.
Oh Girl.............be happy with who you are!! Maybe take a walk during the day for a little exercise, get a new haircut, add some color, buy a cute little outfit or something. While these are all external things, they may help to boost your moral and that's a start. Bottom line.... be happy with who you are! You are great :)
you're fine! all you need is a little self-confidence! I'm not exactly the prettiest girl around, but guess what? I don't have a care in the world what other people think. I don't waste my time brushing my hair and applying make-up and wasting money just to look like everyone else. You're still young anyways. You have plenty of time to loose a little weight and catch the perfect guy. My uncle married someone who's a little big, so there's hope if you really think you're oversized. Good luck and sorry if I offended you.
get on a diet and burn that fat no men like fat girls sorry but thats the way it is.
Picture how you want to look and set goals to reach it.Good luck.
You know, there's nothing wrong with being fat . But you could try exercising, eating good, looking and dressing good. Just remember that the size of your waistline will never justify who you really are. Just do your thing, and be real. And never down yourself 'cause there will always be that one person who will applaud you, even if nobody else is applauding you. Don't worry, I think you'll be fine! Look, I'm applauding you right now! Good luck!
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. We all see different people and things as beautiful. you would look very beautiful to thousands maybe millions of people right now if they could see you. You need confidence in yourself and the uniqueness of your beauty. Don't doubt yourself simply because of a few extra pounds. Remember that Titian and Rubens and many other great artists preferred to paint statuesque women they were the ideal form of beauty then. they still are to many.
Believe in yourself
Dont listen to the post by airborn . I have alot of guy friends who love a woman with extra meat on her! To tell you the truth, most of my guy friends cant stand the sight of really skinny girls! Just because you may not be a size 3, does not mean you are not attractive. Society these days makes us women feel that if we dont look like a Victoria's Secret model than we look awful. But you know what? **** society! If your friends love you, your family loves you, and most importantly you love yourself, then thats all that matters! So the next time youre getting ready to go out, look in the mirror and say Damn I look good!!! When a woman is self confident, it shows and it is very attractive!
The reason you don't have a boyfriend is NOT your weight.
(anyone who differs, please look at the fat chick sitting next to you with a wedding band on her hand)
If YOU want to lose weight, all you need is a motivation. Not the external pressure that everyone else is skinny, but a real reason why you want to lose few lbs.
Once you have decided to lose and made up your mind strongly, you will succeed.
Once you have decided to love yourself for who you are, not how much you weight, you will attract men.
Good luck sweetie!!
~K
lose weight then I mean you know what is making you feel bad then change it and beside you're lucky enough that you know exactly what's making you feel bad, right!!!! once you do it you'll have confidence automatically but remember too much confidence can be dangerous to yourself as much as too little I'm telling you to lose weight because from what you wrote you surely can't except yourself now anyway lose weight first then if you find anything else wrong change it or if it too hard that you have to go to a clinic for losing weight then don't be shy If you do this you'll be a person who know what's right and what's wrong and not too afraid to change it that's all atleast me and alll my friends would think that way I'm sure your friend would be happy to help you and think of it the same way. don't let this over weight thing keep you down beside you said you're just alittle over weight.
good luck
think about it please just lose weigth and you can get more attention but of cause need to remember that NO ONE can get everything they wanted anyway so I'm just saying if once you done losing weight and feel good 'bout yourself you might not got all eyes on you but you atleast feel good about yourself.
Answers: let me tell you something hun. i went for most of my life thinking like you do and it got me nowhere. you will never find happiness until you learn to love yourself. be happy with who and what you are. find what you are good at and do it, forget about not being good enough for anyone else.
Oh Girl.............be happy with who you are!! Maybe take a walk during the day for a little exercise, get a new haircut, add some color, buy a cute little outfit or something. While these are all external things, they may help to boost your moral and that's a start. Bottom line.... be happy with who you are! You are great :)
you're fine! all you need is a little self-confidence! I'm not exactly the prettiest girl around, but guess what? I don't have a care in the world what other people think. I don't waste my time brushing my hair and applying make-up and wasting money just to look like everyone else. You're still young anyways. You have plenty of time to loose a little weight and catch the perfect guy. My uncle married someone who's a little big, so there's hope if you really think you're oversized. Good luck and sorry if I offended you.
get on a diet and burn that fat no men like fat girls sorry but thats the way it is.
Picture how you want to look and set goals to reach it.Good luck.
You know, there's nothing wrong with being fat . But you could try exercising, eating good, looking and dressing good. Just remember that the size of your waistline will never justify who you really are. Just do your thing, and be real. And never down yourself 'cause there will always be that one person who will applaud you, even if nobody else is applauding you. Don't worry, I think you'll be fine! Look, I'm applauding you right now! Good luck!
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. We all see different people and things as beautiful. you would look very beautiful to thousands maybe millions of people right now if they could see you. You need confidence in yourself and the uniqueness of your beauty. Don't doubt yourself simply because of a few extra pounds. Remember that Titian and Rubens and many other great artists preferred to paint statuesque women they were the ideal form of beauty then. they still are to many.
Believe in yourself
Dont listen to the post by airborn . I have alot of guy friends who love a woman with extra meat on her! To tell you the truth, most of my guy friends cant stand the sight of really skinny girls! Just because you may not be a size 3, does not mean you are not attractive. Society these days makes us women feel that if we dont look like a Victoria's Secret model than we look awful. But you know what? **** society! If your friends love you, your family loves you, and most importantly you love yourself, then thats all that matters! So the next time youre getting ready to go out, look in the mirror and say Damn I look good!!! When a woman is self confident, it shows and it is very attractive!
The reason you don't have a boyfriend is NOT your weight.
(anyone who differs, please look at the fat chick sitting next to you with a wedding band on her hand)
If YOU want to lose weight, all you need is a motivation. Not the external pressure that everyone else is skinny, but a real reason why you want to lose few lbs.
Once you have decided to lose and made up your mind strongly, you will succeed.
Once you have decided to love yourself for who you are, not how much you weight, you will attract men.
Good luck sweetie!!
~K
lose weight then I mean you know what is making you feel bad then change it and beside you're lucky enough that you know exactly what's making you feel bad, right!!!! once you do it you'll have confidence automatically but remember too much confidence can be dangerous to yourself as much as too little I'm telling you to lose weight because from what you wrote you surely can't except yourself now anyway lose weight first then if you find anything else wrong change it or if it too hard that you have to go to a clinic for losing weight then don't be shy If you do this you'll be a person who know what's right and what's wrong and not too afraid to change it that's all atleast me and alll my friends would think that way I'm sure your friend would be happy to help you and think of it the same way. don't let this over weight thing keep you down beside you said you're just alittle over weight.
good luck
think about it please just lose weigth and you can get more attention but of cause need to remember that NO ONE can get everything they wanted anyway so I'm just saying if once you done losing weight and feel good 'bout yourself you might not got all eyes on you but you atleast feel good about yourself.
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