This girl and I really like each other But im afraid to take it to the next level because im not circumcised??
Question: what the hell should I do?
Answers: Talk to her about it... don't let it be a shock or surprise -- sadly, a lot of gals in the U.S. aren't familiar with the look of an uncircumcised penis... and they might find it weird . It's not any different as far as functionality... and it's becoming more & more common for men to NOT be circumcised in this country.
If she cares about you at all... it's not going to matter to her.
Take this opportunity to teach her a bit about how to properly handle an uncircumcised fella...
I was a bit shy about it at first, too... but I've long since accepted the fact that since I won't be getting cut (at least, not if I have any choice in the matter) - my partners are going to have to accept me the way I am. I have yet to encounter any negative feedback from any of my partners.
why does that make any difference
go to the next level.
put on a condom, she wont notice, when you're done and she sees.. she cant whine about it because she's already experienced/seen it
My girlfriend is a Muslim but I am not circumcised either. She soon got used to it.
just tell her it is a turtle neck for the winter
just tell her it is a turtle neck for the winter LOL!
Well, it won't matter, if you feel more comfortable talking about it, do so, or if you just want to have sex, do it ! Because she probably won't care to be honest, just have self confidence and remember, if she truely cares for you she won't even care!
Its really sad you don't feel comfortable about having your penis naturally intact, like 85% of the rest of the men on this planet.
I take it youre in America, as this is the only one remaining country where some girls frown upon an uncircumsized penis. If you're from any other country, odds are that she will be fine with your foreskin.
To break the ice, ask her if she's ever been with an uncircumsized guy before, and whether she answers yes or no, say that you are NOT circumsized.
I highly doubt she'll suddenly say I dont like you anymore then .
Does it matter that the fella hasn't been scalped
First of all, have some confidence in yourself. Most guys in the world (about 70-80%) are uncircumcised, but it might be uncommon where you're from. If she's never seen an uncircumcised penis she might be surprised, but few women are actually really turned off by it. If she's never encountered a foreskin before, show her how's it's used and such.
Be sure you're clean down there so she won't have any reasons to complain about. It's not hard as I'm sure you know, just pull back the foreskin and wash the area underneath like any other part of your body. Then dry the area gently with a clean towel.
If you both really like each other, it shouldn't matter if you're circumcised or not. She'd have to be pretty shallow to reject you for your foreskin, and there are plenty of women who would prefer their guys to be uncircumcised. So basically, don't worry so much, it'll be fine.
This should not be a problem at all. Girls (women) are not visually turned on by looking at your private parts. Boys (Men) are more visual. So it should not really matter. As others have observed, have confidence in yourself.
Can't see why being circumcised makes any difference in taking the next step Cut or not you will still be able to satisfy a sexual partner
If you are both comfortable about taking the relationship further and you use protection then why not ??
So? You have more meat!
You are a silly billy arn't you!
It doesnt matter if you cut or not.
It makes no differance to your winky, it wont affect the pleasure you both receive and it wont affect your performance.
Indeed, uncut men like yourself tend to 'last longer' during sex.
The main thing is, do you love her and does she love you?? If so, so for it!!!
why should you be afread to take it to the next level coz of that??? and please don't do the religion cr-p please!!!
im a girl that likes circumcised guys, coz i think is cleaner somehow...but when i met my bf the one i love now, he isnt circumcised and now im used to guys who arent circumcised, so dont worry she will get used to you
If she likes you she won't care. If she's inexperienced she probably won't notice. Most men in the world aren't circumcised and they're not having any problems. I don't know where you live, but even if it's a high circ-rate, anybody having a problem with that would be an idiot. Keep clean and use condoms always.
ahhhh... best advice from guy to guy is to
*keep it clean
*DRY. always dry. dry is the key
*condoms
Make sure its clean and dry! also.. mate. it depends if its a big or small skin. can u see the knob or is it completley coverd?? if your not comfortable you should see the doc and they either can put u to sleep od dumb it and remove it. You need it off its it causing you problems man. It only hurts for like a couple of days. But... jjust clean and dry is good enough. I think girls just dont want a big smelly foreskin to use.lol. having one is better for stimulation aswell.good luck buddy. have fun
Why does that make a difference...!!!!!!!!!
Here in Britain most guys are intact. In my opinion an intact penis is more attractive and easier to please than one that has been circumcised. You could share your fears with your girl, she probably has her own body hangups too!!!
Lots of males aren't circumcised. Where I live the parents aren't incouraged to circumcise their baby boys. So a great deal never get done. But the women don't complain. If however you have std's then she might have a different view on things.
The main thing about taking things to the next level is that you both are ready for that step. Just relax and don't worry. If she
is bothered by it,then she is not worth bothering about. Coz it is your body,and your choice whether you mutilate it. Although being circumcised can be cleaner I think. As long as you are practising good hygiene there is no problem.
So don't worry!!!!
why would that make a difference, I'm uncut and have never had an issue. Over 85% of the worlds men are uncut as well so there are more of us than cut guys.
You are the one who is natural and should never have a problem. Just make sure you wash it like the rest of your body and all is well. If she has a problem with you being uncut then it is here who has the problem,
dont worry cheese dont get rid of your sweat band
Answers: Talk to her about it... don't let it be a shock or surprise -- sadly, a lot of gals in the U.S. aren't familiar with the look of an uncircumcised penis... and they might find it weird . It's not any different as far as functionality... and it's becoming more & more common for men to NOT be circumcised in this country.
If she cares about you at all... it's not going to matter to her.
Take this opportunity to teach her a bit about how to properly handle an uncircumcised fella...
I was a bit shy about it at first, too... but I've long since accepted the fact that since I won't be getting cut (at least, not if I have any choice in the matter) - my partners are going to have to accept me the way I am. I have yet to encounter any negative feedback from any of my partners.
why does that make any difference
go to the next level.
put on a condom, she wont notice, when you're done and she sees.. she cant whine about it because she's already experienced/seen it
My girlfriend is a Muslim but I am not circumcised either. She soon got used to it.
just tell her it is a turtle neck for the winter
just tell her it is a turtle neck for the winter LOL!
Well, it won't matter, if you feel more comfortable talking about it, do so, or if you just want to have sex, do it ! Because she probably won't care to be honest, just have self confidence and remember, if she truely cares for you she won't even care!
Its really sad you don't feel comfortable about having your penis naturally intact, like 85% of the rest of the men on this planet.
I take it youre in America, as this is the only one remaining country where some girls frown upon an uncircumsized penis. If you're from any other country, odds are that she will be fine with your foreskin.
To break the ice, ask her if she's ever been with an uncircumsized guy before, and whether she answers yes or no, say that you are NOT circumsized.
I highly doubt she'll suddenly say I dont like you anymore then .
Does it matter that the fella hasn't been scalped
First of all, have some confidence in yourself. Most guys in the world (about 70-80%) are uncircumcised, but it might be uncommon where you're from. If she's never seen an uncircumcised penis she might be surprised, but few women are actually really turned off by it. If she's never encountered a foreskin before, show her how's it's used and such.
Be sure you're clean down there so she won't have any reasons to complain about. It's not hard as I'm sure you know, just pull back the foreskin and wash the area underneath like any other part of your body. Then dry the area gently with a clean towel.
If you both really like each other, it shouldn't matter if you're circumcised or not. She'd have to be pretty shallow to reject you for your foreskin, and there are plenty of women who would prefer their guys to be uncircumcised. So basically, don't worry so much, it'll be fine.
This should not be a problem at all. Girls (women) are not visually turned on by looking at your private parts. Boys (Men) are more visual. So it should not really matter. As others have observed, have confidence in yourself.
Can't see why being circumcised makes any difference in taking the next step Cut or not you will still be able to satisfy a sexual partner
If you are both comfortable about taking the relationship further and you use protection then why not ??
So? You have more meat!
You are a silly billy arn't you!
It doesnt matter if you cut or not.
It makes no differance to your winky, it wont affect the pleasure you both receive and it wont affect your performance.
Indeed, uncut men like yourself tend to 'last longer' during sex.
The main thing is, do you love her and does she love you?? If so, so for it!!!
why should you be afread to take it to the next level coz of that??? and please don't do the religion cr-p please!!!
im a girl that likes circumcised guys, coz i think is cleaner somehow...but when i met my bf the one i love now, he isnt circumcised and now im used to guys who arent circumcised, so dont worry she will get used to you
If she likes you she won't care. If she's inexperienced she probably won't notice. Most men in the world aren't circumcised and they're not having any problems. I don't know where you live, but even if it's a high circ-rate, anybody having a problem with that would be an idiot. Keep clean and use condoms always.
ahhhh... best advice from guy to guy is to
*keep it clean
*DRY. always dry. dry is the key
*condoms
Make sure its clean and dry! also.. mate. it depends if its a big or small skin. can u see the knob or is it completley coverd?? if your not comfortable you should see the doc and they either can put u to sleep od dumb it and remove it. You need it off its it causing you problems man. It only hurts for like a couple of days. But... jjust clean and dry is good enough. I think girls just dont want a big smelly foreskin to use.lol. having one is better for stimulation aswell.good luck buddy. have fun
Why does that make a difference...!!!!!!!!!
Here in Britain most guys are intact. In my opinion an intact penis is more attractive and easier to please than one that has been circumcised. You could share your fears with your girl, she probably has her own body hangups too!!!
Lots of males aren't circumcised. Where I live the parents aren't incouraged to circumcise their baby boys. So a great deal never get done. But the women don't complain. If however you have std's then she might have a different view on things.
The main thing about taking things to the next level is that you both are ready for that step. Just relax and don't worry. If she
is bothered by it,then she is not worth bothering about. Coz it is your body,and your choice whether you mutilate it. Although being circumcised can be cleaner I think. As long as you are practising good hygiene there is no problem.
So don't worry!!!!
why would that make a difference, I'm uncut and have never had an issue. Over 85% of the worlds men are uncut as well so there are more of us than cut guys.
You are the one who is natural and should never have a problem. Just make sure you wash it like the rest of your body and all is well. If she has a problem with you being uncut then it is here who has the problem,
dont worry cheese dont get rid of your sweat band
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