What should i do to balance my unstable mind and thinking. i was married 10 years ago to a very short aged man?
Question: i was very nervous and suffered depression as i hated his appearence..in this dilemma i aborted pregnency though he wants children..after an year iget adjusted and began to love him & try to conceive, undergone treatment but again tentions arises as i failed to conceive.after that i all over again suffered depression and became confused.i felt sad and depressed when i think of life with him or leaving him.we get separated after every fight for months & years.i think that because of my unbalanced thinking i cant able to take any decision. when i live with him i feel that i cant able to led life with him and decide to divorce him but suddenly got frightened and change my decision.i dont have strength to take any step.some times i wanted to get back to him but suddenly felt depressed.i cry a lot as i fail to take any step. iam financially sound.my husband love me but he is very rigid,lack of confidence in himtoo.some times he also appear depressed(childless).now he is 49& iam32 years
Answers: The first problem with you is not your husband but your indecisiveness. It is much obvious that u r confused. But remember confusion never brings out solutions. Do not keep confusions with you for longer for your better.
As u have confessed that you began to love your husband, now the problem with you is just giving a birth to child.
Be assertive to your husband. Both of you sit together and be assertive. Only this will find solution. God will bless you with a baby.
It is your life. You are 32.ok . Then make the rest of the life beautiful with your husband. Give meaning to your and his life.
Becasue the only purpose of mariage is not just to give birth to a baby but to be happy. at least you can do this.
Everything will be fine, be courageous. Be assertive and be positve. Life is ahead. love is ahead . growth is ahead.
Greatluck
http://dailystrength.org/support/Mental_...
I would also ask this question at this website thers alot of help here and real people if you dont find ur answer here.good luck
Do not worry.
Go ahead and have a child or two. Most children look like some combination of parents and grandparents and aunts and uncle or even no one that is existing around.
if u really care about this relationship,try first talking to your husband about your fears n anxieties.it will surely help.if it doesnt then u must together consult a marriage counseller n try n sort out this confused state of affairs.i can only suggest that u dont delay in sorting out this problem or it can only get worse.u are already 32 n he 49,live life as it should be led n be happy.enjoy your time together.all the best.
Answers: The first problem with you is not your husband but your indecisiveness. It is much obvious that u r confused. But remember confusion never brings out solutions. Do not keep confusions with you for longer for your better.
As u have confessed that you began to love your husband, now the problem with you is just giving a birth to child.
Be assertive to your husband. Both of you sit together and be assertive. Only this will find solution. God will bless you with a baby.
It is your life. You are 32.ok . Then make the rest of the life beautiful with your husband. Give meaning to your and his life.
Becasue the only purpose of mariage is not just to give birth to a baby but to be happy. at least you can do this.
Everything will be fine, be courageous. Be assertive and be positve. Life is ahead. love is ahead . growth is ahead.
Greatluck
http://dailystrength.org/support/Mental_...
I would also ask this question at this website thers alot of help here and real people if you dont find ur answer here.good luck
Do not worry.
Go ahead and have a child or two. Most children look like some combination of parents and grandparents and aunts and uncle or even no one that is existing around.
if u really care about this relationship,try first talking to your husband about your fears n anxieties.it will surely help.if it doesnt then u must together consult a marriage counseller n try n sort out this confused state of affairs.i can only suggest that u dont delay in sorting out this problem or it can only get worse.u are already 32 n he 49,live life as it should be led n be happy.enjoy your time together.all the best.
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