I 've had fantasies about my family members??
Question: I am sixteen right now and i have a a wierd problem i strted watching porn when i was 14 and i encountered some incest sites by accident and then i used to surf them a lot and because of that i started to fantasize about my own family now when i have turned 16 i realized that i should'nt have done that but now the guilt is killing me i feelvery scared and sometimes palpitated when i think of what i have done please help me and tell me how i can get rid of his guilt cause i feel it's affecting my studies i mostly think about it when I'm alone pls help me i don't think i can tell this to anyone but i really want someone to help me now beacuse earlier when i used to have alll those fantasies i never felt guilty but now when i've stopped the guilt is haunting me..... pls help
Answers: I think the fact that you realize that there is something just not right about this and that you have remorse is enough. If you only fantasized about it, what's the harm? We all have fantasies that we would never want anyone to know about. It probably triggered something in your mind after seeing the movies you saw. If you really are past that stage, you should stop beating yourself up, take a deep breath and get over it. If you are still secretly wanting to act on this or are fantasizing about it, maybe you should seek the help of a counselor or a therapist. Good luck.
A whole lot of people have experienced these same fantasy's. Forget about it. As long as you didn't act on any of them then there is no problem. My goodness,...if everyone should feel guilty about their fantasy's we would all be basket cases. Get over it.....everyone has fantasy's that they would be ashamed of..... best wishes
I wouldnt be worried about it. I know that it scares you and its not what everyone wants you to think is normal but I know so many friends (myself included) that when they were your age they had fantasies about their family. Everything from fanasizing that during sex a family member would walk in, or join, or just thinking about sex with family. As long as you don't act on the fantasys then I really wouldn't worry about it. It will go away, I hate to use this but it more than likely is just a phase . I know I surely dont want anyone walking in on my having sex anymore. I really hope that this helps and if things get to where you can't handle it anymore, talk to someone you trust that you know won't judge you. Good Luck!
It's not such a weird problem. You're just going through the stages of growing up. Just don't act on harmful fantasies, and try to nurture new avenues for your mind to explore. It seems a sign of a vivid imagination, so maybe you could put that to some good use rather than trying to avoid dwelling on thoughts that cause you harm.
Answers: I think the fact that you realize that there is something just not right about this and that you have remorse is enough. If you only fantasized about it, what's the harm? We all have fantasies that we would never want anyone to know about. It probably triggered something in your mind after seeing the movies you saw. If you really are past that stage, you should stop beating yourself up, take a deep breath and get over it. If you are still secretly wanting to act on this or are fantasizing about it, maybe you should seek the help of a counselor or a therapist. Good luck.
A whole lot of people have experienced these same fantasy's. Forget about it. As long as you didn't act on any of them then there is no problem. My goodness,...if everyone should feel guilty about their fantasy's we would all be basket cases. Get over it.....everyone has fantasy's that they would be ashamed of..... best wishes
I wouldnt be worried about it. I know that it scares you and its not what everyone wants you to think is normal but I know so many friends (myself included) that when they were your age they had fantasies about their family. Everything from fanasizing that during sex a family member would walk in, or join, or just thinking about sex with family. As long as you don't act on the fantasys then I really wouldn't worry about it. It will go away, I hate to use this but it more than likely is just a phase . I know I surely dont want anyone walking in on my having sex anymore. I really hope that this helps and if things get to where you can't handle it anymore, talk to someone you trust that you know won't judge you. Good Luck!
It's not such a weird problem. You're just going through the stages of growing up. Just don't act on harmful fantasies, and try to nurture new avenues for your mind to explore. It seems a sign of a vivid imagination, so maybe you could put that to some good use rather than trying to avoid dwelling on thoughts that cause you harm.
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